People talk a lot about healing, but very few people talk about what healing actually changes inside you, and almost nobody warns you about how healing can feel. This is something we see every day at Abasa. People start healing genuinely, and then they panic because it starts feeling harder instead of lighter. So if … Read more
Tell me honestly—have you ever walked out of a conversation thinking, “That’s not what I meant. Why did it go so wrong?” You had no bad intention. You just wanted to be heard or understood. But somehow, your words didn’t land properly. Your silence felt like distance. Your tone felt like blame. And your … Read more
If I ask you, what do you truly want in life? Chances are your mind either goes blank or gives a safe answer—something that sounds practical, sensible, and acceptable. But deep down, it doesn’t feel true. This doesn’t mean you have no desires. It means your desires are buried under fear, pressure, expectations, and a … Read more
Be Strong — But What Does That Really Mean? Be strong. Stay positive. Don’t let life break you. You’ve heard these things a hundred times, right? I’m not here to give you another motivational speech. I just want to ask you one simple thing: What do you do when one small stress—like a fight at … Read more
Society calls them lazy. Science calls them geniuses. Here’s why staying home might be the smartest thing you’ll ever do. Society told you that successful people are always out there networking, hustling, grinding at 5:00 a.m. in some overpriced coffee shop. But what if I told you that some of the most brilliant minds in … Read more
The holidays are supposed to be joyful. But let’s be honest, they often feel more like a stress marathon. There’s the constant noise, the pressure, and the endless to-do lists. Beneath all of it, many people feel overwhelmed, anxious, and emotionally exhausted. Here’s something most people don’t realize: you can calm your nervous system and … Read more
The Gut–Brain Connection and Mental Health You eat sushi and you feel happy. You eat curd rice and you feel calm and comforted. So clearly, what you eat affects how you feel, right? But here’s something we rarely think about. It’s not just about what you eat. What you don’t eat also affects how you … Read more
Let’s say you are in a meeting. You share an idea—actually a very good idea. Everyone nods politely, then moves on. Their reaction is like you’ve never spoken. But ten minutes later, someone else says the same thing. Suddenly, everyone is engaged. They’re taking notes, and they say it’s a great idea. You feel confused … Read more
The uncomfortable truth is this. If you do not have friends, there is a chance you are not the problem. You might be operating on a frequency most people cannot detect. This is not feel good participation trophy nonsense. This is the dark and rarely discussed psychology of why certain personality types end up isolated … Read more
Ever find yourself stuck in a loop of thoughts? Feeling like you are trying to solve a problem and getting nowhere? You think you are analyzing the situation to death, but instead it feels like you are just spinning your wheels without any real progress. This kind of mental struggle can feel frustrating and exhausting, … Read more