How to Get Into Your Best Mental State

Feeling Off in the Morning?

Have you ever had one of those mornings where everything just feels a little off? You are groggy, you cannot focus, and it feels like your brain is not even online yet. Most of us have. But here is the thing. That mental fog is not just random. It is often the result of how you start your day.

Why Your Morning Routine Matters

In this article, we are looking at how your morning routine can shape the rest of your day mentally, emotionally, and neurologically.

I want to be clear up front. This is not about becoming a 5 AM cold plunge person, and you do not need a 2 hour morning ritual with green juice and journaling under a Himalayan sunrise.

What I am going to share are 5 simple elements of a morning routine that support your brain’s natural chemistry and help you operate from your most resilient self.

Information Source – Psychiatrist Dr. Tracey Marks youtube video

Cortisol When You Wake Up

Your brain does not wake up all at once. There is a natural sequence of events that begins, and one of the main drivers of that sequence is cortisol.

Cortisol gets a bad reputation because it is considered the stress hormone, but it is also your get up and go hormone. Under normal circumstances, your cortisol levels spike within the first 30 to 45 minutes after you wake up. This is called the cortisol awakening response. It helps you feel alert, motivated, and ready to take on your day.

But here is the catch. That natural rhythm can be disrupted by poor sleep, stress, inconsistent routines, and even checking your phone before you are out of bed. When your cortisol rhythm is off, you may feel groggy in the morning and wired at night, which is the exact opposite of what your brain needs to be resilient.

5 Brain Friendly Morning Habits

So what can you do to work with your brain’s natural rhythm? Here are 5 science backed elements of a morning routine that help unlock your best mental state.

1. Get Morning Light

The first habit is light exposure. Your brain needs light to know when it is time to be awake. Sunlight, especially within the first hour of waking, helps suppress melatonin, the hormone that makes you sleepy, and reinforces your circadian rhythm. Think of it as flipping on your brain’s internal switch.

Ideally, go outside for five to ten minutes, but if that is not possible, open the blinds and sit by a window, even if it is cloudy. Outdoor light is far more powerful than indoor bulbs. If you wake up before the sun rises, a light therapy box can be a helpful alternative.

2. Move Your Body Gently

The second habit is gentle movement. This is not a full workout. It is simply moving your body. Stretching, walking, or doing a few yoga poses. These activities boost blood flow to your brain and trigger the release of dopamine and norepinephrine, which improve alertness and focus.

Movement also engages your prefrontal cortex, the part of your brain that helps with planning, decision making, and emotional regulation. In other words, it gives you a head start on focus and calm.

3. Prime Your Mindset

The third habit is mental priming. This is where you decide what kind of mindset you are going to bring into your day. Your brain is especially impressionable right after waking up, so those first thoughts really matter.

You can do this through journaling, setting an intention, or silently repeating a phrase like, “Today I will respond instead of react.” Even a thirty second intention can steer your brain away from chaos and toward clarity.

To set an intention, you do not need a detailed to do list or pressure. Choose one primary intention, such as focusing on what you can control, approaching challenges with curiosity instead of stress, or deciding to respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively. This practice takes less than a minute, but it shifts your brain from reactive mode to intentional mode.

If you want help with this part, my Essential Tools Card Deck includes grounding and intention setting cards that are perfect for morning use. You can grab a card, take one breath, and give your brain a direction for the day.

4. Hydrate First

The fourth habit is hydration. Your brain is about seventy three percent water and does not store water overnight. Even mild dehydration, as little as 1% to 2%, can impair memory, concentration, and mood. So before your coffee or breakfast, drink a full glass of water.

If plain water does not appeal to you, add a splash of lemon or a pinch of sea salt. This one habit alone can help reduce brain fog and stabilize your mood throughout the morning.

5. Complete One Tiny Win

The fifth habit is completing one tiny win. This could be making your bed, watering your plants, or writing down your top tasks for the day. When you complete even one small task, your brain gets a small hit of dopamine, the chemical that signals progress and reward. This burst of dopamine creates momentum, and momentum builds motivation.

Why Consistency Builds Resilience

The key is not to do all 5 habits perfectly every morning. It is to choose 1 or 2 that fit into your life and practice them consistently.

Consistency builds new neural pathways. This is where neuroplasticity comes in, the brain’s ability to change and grow based on what you do repeatedly.

When you prime your brain every morning with a few minutes of structure, light, movement, hydration, or intention, you are rewiring the way your brain handles stress and focus. These five practices activate your prefrontal cortex, calm your nervous system, and help restore your natural rhythm. It is not just a feel good routine. It is a neurological reset that improves your brain’s resilience over time.

Remember, these are not rigid rules. You do not need to do all five in a specific order or for a specific amount of time. Think of them as tools. Use the ones that serve you and allow room for flexibility.

What a Resilient Morning Looks Like

Here is an example of what this can look like in real life. You wake up and before reaching for your phone, you take three deep breaths. You open the blinds and step outside for 2 minutes of sunlight. While sipping your water, you say one sentence: “Today, I will focus on what I can control.”

That is it. You have already done more for your brain than many people do all morning. And it does not have to be perfect to be powerful.

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